December 20, 2015

When you can’t put it in words, put a gift in a wrapping.

It is so difficult to express what you want to say through words at times. Mostly, we resort to letters or cards in such situations. What helps the most during such times is gifting something to express your sentiments. Though people deny extravagant gifts in weddings, gifting always works its wonders to nourish a relationship.

Gifts are the best way to express your feelings.  Gifts tend to make you happy even if you are the one who is gifting it to somebody rather than receiving it. The smile that you see on the receivers face is the best ‘return gift’ that you could possibly have. Similarly, when you gift something that the receiver doesn’t really like, you feel quite bad, right?
Let me be your Secret Santa!
‘Open with smile’; you will find this written on envelopes containing letters mostly. When you know that you are getting a letter from a loved one, asking you to smile as you open it, you are surely going to love it and as a result, it will indeed, make you smile. However, if you get a gift on a birthday or on some special occasion, mostly you tend to be apprehensive as you open it. Let’s be honest, we all have experienced that time when we opened the gift with a smile but weren’t so happy later on as the gift isn’t something of our choice. Many a times some clothes which we get as gifts don’t fit us well.

We can’t make use of the gift neither can we return it as it is difficult to return without bills. Asking the person who gifted you for the bill is also as indecorous. So what to do?
With the holiday season in full swing, are you also looking for getting a gift for your beloved/friends/relatives? Are you worried that they might not like it? Let me help you here. The beautiful world of e-gift cards is the best way to get the best present for your loved ones. E-gift cards make it possible to not only gift your loved ones but also ensure that they love it as they can get whatever suits their whims.

‘Open With Smile’ is your go-to online store to gift e-cards to your loved ones this holiday season. The wedding season is in full swing, which is the best time to get together with the family and shower the people you love with gifts. Also, with Christmas round the corner, it is time to be the Secret Santa and send gifts. So stop pondering what to buy and check out this amazing website to enter into a wonderful world of gifting. Now you can gift anytime, anywhere with ‘Open with Smile’, http://openwithsmile.com/
E-gift  card from 'Open With Smile'
This awesome website offers more than 100 brands on board and few brands from Ahmadabad also. If you happen to be a corporate you can reach them for group gifting and unique gifting like video messages. Now choose from restaurants like Costa Coffee, Dominoes Pizza or Mainland China and brands like Allen Solly and Fab India for vouchers and gifting. Amdavadis can also go for local brands like Mr and Mrs Somani and Nishi Nail Spa and Boutique.

Let’s have a quiz on gifting this holiday season, shall we?

‘Which is the best gift you got or gifted, and why?’

Send in your comments in the comments section of this blog, or email me:  tvara129@gmail.com

Send in your answers till the next Monday, i.e. 28th Dec, 2015

The best two comments will get an E-card from ‘Open With Smile’ worth INR 500/- each.

Buy yourself something nice with it or you can even gift it to someone :)

This contest is valid all over India. So come on people, lets gift! :)

December 02, 2015

The Tamasha effect

‘Jenki life main koi prob nahi hoti woh prob bana te hai’

This is what people say when you claim to be frustrated with your life which might be oh-so-perfect for them.

But...

Have you ever talked to your reflection in the mirror and then got scared that you will go crazy as people say those who keep looking in the mirror go mad?

Have you ever got so frustrated with studies that you pierce you notebook with your pen trying to inflict as much pain on it as you feel it inflicts on you? (only some Indians studying Math will relate I think) And then suddenly stopped yourself thinking this paper and pen can be used to write something wonderful, to draw or paint something nice, and also the same paper is used to make those marvellous storybooks... then saying a silent sorry to the paper...

Have you ever seen characters come out of books, comics or movies and walk around you?
Have you felt like walking in this 'parallel' world with these people? Talking to them?

Have you ever felt that music is personal to each person; hence even if two or more people are listening to the same music they should try wearing headphones? Or let’s just say listening to music on headphones when no one knows what you are listening to is a great way to connect to music. Even though it’s a stupid song, it connects your personal energy to the universe.
Have you ever felt so?

Have you ever not bothered to see the video of a song you simply love as the visuals you have in your head are just beautiful? When you don't want to see anyone else in the video as you have pictured yourself dancing on that song and that is just how you want it.

Has the magnificent history of this world ever got mumbled jumbled in your head that you place an Indian bride walking on the aisle in a church or felt that your house-help resembles a character from a story and just then something they do brings out that character alive? Do you place Mickey Mouse in a remote Indian village or think how would the streets of America look if there were mice running around? Does this ever happen to you when you keep reading on different subjects simultaneously? And crazy as the thought is, you like it because it’s your own creation? A secret between you and yourself.

Have you ever imagined fungus growing in your stomach or that a weird insect is having a walk through your intestines even though you know you have a minor stomach ache due to something that you ate?

Do you love listening to stories? From just anyone who bothers to tell you one? Just like childhood.

Hearing and believing make-believe stuff, though you absolutely know its make-believe?

Yes I have felt all of the above...

and hence I could connect to Ranbir’s character in Tamasha. ‘Jenki life main koi prob nahi hoti woh prob bana te hai’, this was told to Ranbir’s character Ved by his father in the movie when he kept getting frustrated by what he calls ‘aam zindagi’. While I loved this statement his dad makes, which is so true for some people, and it even made me smile in an otherwise intense scene, I could understand how Ved felt, as what may be a great life for most people is boring and dull for him. It’s all about the perception, and naturally people who live in stories have great expectations out of their lives - which make their degree of frustration higher and difficult to be understood by others. Deepika’s character Tara is a nice one too - who loves, understands and even helps a person like that to succeed. Imtiaz Ali sure loves romantic stories - and he has a knack of showing a characters personal journey along with a wonderful love story in his movies’ - this is a difficult feat and he always gets it right, while also becoming better with every movie.

Loved Tamasha ya! The tagline is perfect – ‘Why always the same story?’ People who actually love stories, would appreciate fresh ones rather than formula ones.

And yes when I see writers and filmmaker’s returning their awards in India due to the growing intolerance, I feel really insecure about the wonderful stories of our beautiful country. Hence I ask for tolerance. These days’ filmmakers’ say a Thank you to people for watching their movies, (it should be other way around) but I thank Imtiaz Ali for Tamasha. So ya, a big thank you for Tamasha.

I think it should be nominated for Oscars this year unless we get a better movie. Don’t you think that we have amazing movies but we send the wrong ones to Oscars sometimes? We should either not bother about the Oscars altogether or send the right ones for the competition instead of always cribbing why we never win. We need to have a global outlook for the same… it can certainly come by being more tolerant…

This isn’t a review. As I don’t write movie reviews :P I just write about the effect. So here is the Tamasha effect:

Payal and I are walking out of the exit door of PVR.

Me: I think I am exactly like Ved.

Payal: I think I am exactly like Tara.
(OK people; don’t take it the other way)

Me: Wait, we need to go back and give ₹30 to the guy at the popcorn counter as I owe him and I don’t have cash.

Payal: I think I also don’t have, wait let me check. (She looks in her bag and finds some cash and hands over ₹30 to me)

We go inside and pay the guy at the counter who is surprised that I came back to pay him. We walk out of the mall and are waiting for an auto. We live really close by so all autowallahs say a big NO.

Me: We need to go to the ATM, as I borrowed ₹100 from Rashmi(the other room-mate) as I had no time to go to the ATM and she wants them back as she doesn’t have change. (Payal was out with her friends and had joined me at PVR)

Payal: You told me you walked here, so what did you borrow the money for? Oh, the popcorn! 

Me: I need to have cheese popcorn while watching a movie at PVR.

Payal: What?!

Me: Yes, it’s customary and mandatory.

Payal: You really are little mad like Ved. Please don’t end up selling your stuff to fulfill your crazy fantasies. HA -HA! 

Me: Oh please, I am not that crazy… just a little bit.


P.S.  There is a little blunder in Tamasha. Deepika’s blue dress becomes a little longer in the later part of the song Matargashti as she is required to do some bouncy steps on stairs :P It could have been the same length or the bouncy steps on stairs could have been avoided. 

November 24, 2015

No-shave November quiz results


It was fun to see the mind blowing response to the No-shave November quiz. I got some amazing pictures and comments.

Winner:

Mayank Pansheriya

“We all know that the purpose of No Shave November is to help cancer patients. My reason, why I'm following No-shave November is for my uncle and other cancer patients in India. My uncle has Brain cancer from past two years. No-shave November is doing a great job but the benefit goes to only the US citizens. In India, there are no such programs. I'm growing beard and spreading the awareness against cancer in India. So people can take initiative and start such kind of programs, which can financially help the cancer patients in India.”

Congratulations!

I am really touched by Mayank’s gesture for his uncle and cancer patients. Also, his answer is true to the spirit of the No-shave November, also referred to as Movember.

Here are some amazing comments and pictures which I want to share. Thank you everyone. This quiz was fun!

Sagar Shah



"Most of my months are no different from movember! Carrying beard is like carrying manhood right on your face. When you have patience to grow beard, you have patience to deal with any shit.
#MadManHood
#Movember
#NoShaveNovember "

Yash Mehta


"Why I grow beard? Because I love the rough look. Other reason is I am very lazy,sometimes I forget trimming too😜. And the most important one is, I heard that girls love guys with beard. Being single, that is the biggest reason I guess..lol😂"

Sherwin Everett

"I just like to and I can that's why. I'm the typical wildlife conservationist type. Long hair long beard. It goes with the whole rugged look. Some baby animals love nuzzling it."

Abraham Johnson

"Beard turns laziness into awesomeness"

Shreyas Nair

"There has been a relatively new trend set off in recent years where women find themselves attracted to men with facial and body hair. A beard is the first thing a person will notice, and the first thing a guy will be asked about.
The only reason I grow it although is I am very much aware about the No-shave November; to give up shaving just to save the shaving and hair dressing money to be donated for the welfare of cancer patients."


Hardik Nayi

"I have no reason to keep a beard as such. But yes, I want a bun style look like this guy. Main bun style banana chahta hu...thats the reason for No-shave and no hair cut."


Karan Rupera



"This one is a tribute to Mitchell Johnson as he announced his retirement from international cricket."

Hiral Rupera

She has posed candidly with her brother :) Love this picture!


Ramana Vamsi


"My pic when I was 20 years old. This is a throwback to old times." 

Saleell Kaarkhanis

"I am sending this picture in remembrance of my late grandmother who passed away due to cancer when I was only 18."

Ha ha..he is the owner of Darshan. He whatsapped me his pic and said, "Its late but can I still participate?" Amazing spirit! :)

Thank you all :)